Theres another part of the foundation to a healthy relationship that often ends up overlooked, and thats self-improvement. Any relationship, but a romantic one especially, depends on each individual involved in it. Self-improvement isnt just about trying to be the most productive, amazing super-human on the planet.

Can you improve yourself while in a relationship?

“It is possible to find yourself and to evolve when youre in a committed relationship. In fact, thats how healthy relationships grow,” Masini agrees. “When you are with someone who is committed to you and the relationship, there is room for finding yourself.”

Can you do self work while in a relationship?

How can you focus on yourself in a relationship? You can practice self-love, find things to do alone, be with your friends, and set yourself goals. You can do all of this alone, while still being in a relationship. There will always be a healthy balance of couple time versus your time.