The 8-year rule states that you shouldnt date anyone outside of an 8-year age range. I am aware there are possibilities where two people can successfully date with an age gap of more than eight years. Ive dated (or tried to date) women who are older, younger and, if youll believe it, exactly the same age as I am.

Is dating someone 8 years older weird?

So no, its not weird, but it makes you vulnerable to abuse. I would say its less common, but by no means weird. A good rule of thumb is thinking about married couples. An 8 year difference between a couple in their 50s wouldnt be that big.

Can I date a man 8 years older than me?

An 8 year gap in this day and age is a pretty normal age gap between partners. Of course, you could be at different stages in life, but if you both truly want to be together, the two of you can compromise for the sake of your relationship. Rather than your age gap, the long distance may be a more pressing concern.