Why should I date?

Dates let you find out, and find out fast. 3. Dates create a clear and unambiguous context. Having a defined setting where you both get to look hot, flirt, and do something fun together is the tried-and-true best way to launch a relationship.

Why do we date the wrong people?

Its because we fear rejection. Because we know that the person is not our own kind of person, we sense a higher risk of rejection coming from the person. We want to avoid rejection because we humans are generally desperate to be assured that we have the power to control our lives.