When Should You Text to Confirm a Date? At the time you first make the date, you should confirm it. Its easy to be causal by simply stating or texting you look forward to seeing the person and then state the date and time.

Is it bad to confirm a date?

Unless you arranged the date weeks ago, back when you were just texting for the first time, its best to wait until the day to confirm. If you have the date set up for when she gets back, a lot can happen in that time. If youre chatting on and off for the duration, its not so bad.

When should you confirm a date?

After getting the date on the calendar, suggest connecting the day before the actual date to confirm, Golden says. For example, if you schedule today to meet Bob on July 31, state in your text or dating app exchange, Looking forward to meeting next week.

Should you message a guy first?

You should text him first if, youre reaching out to him to genuinely connect and communicate with him. If for any reason youre texting him based on worry, fear or anxiety. Such as, trying to “keep his interest” or manipulating him to do something for you.