Kindness, loyalty, and understanding (not looks, status, and excitement). When people are asked to list the most important qualities in a potential partner, kindness, physical attractiveness, an exciting personality, and income/earning potential tend to top the list.

What qualities do I want in a partner?

Dating Resolutions: 7 Characteristics of an Ideal PartnerMaturity. This statement is not meant to echo the ever-advised mantra that maturity is important. Openness. The ideal partner is open, undefended and willing to be vulnerable. Honesty & Integrity. Respect & Independence. Empathy. Affection. Sense of Humor.