Should a woman make the first call?
The person who feels a connection first should make the call – regardless of their gender. And by all means keep your first call short and appropriate. But dont shy away from making that contact just because of old rules designed for a different situation or because of fear.
It shows that youre interested and you know what you want. Besides, for a shy guy, it can be really refreshing to have a girl send the first text. It takes a lot of pressure off of him and will instantly make him more comfortable with you.
Should I call him or wait?
You should call him, no matter how long it has been. You might not want to be the person to give in, but someone has to do it. One of you should just do it, and if that person is you, awesome! Before you rush to pick up your phone, remember not to attack him.
How often should you call a girl in the beginning?
Neuman ultimately recommends waiting a few days between phone calls, or a week or longer if you know the woman has let you know she has a busy schedule. The decision is up to you, however. If your new partner calls you often, following her cues and calling at her pace is likely appropriate.