True happiness in a relationship can generally be measured by how secure you feel that the other person is there, relationship and dating coach Brooke Bergman tells Bustle. Its the feeling that if push came to shove your partner would be there — that they will fight for the relationship.

What are the signs of not being happy in a relationship?

Signs Youre Not Happy In Your RelationshipYoure annoyed by everything they do. You avoid spending time with them. Youve stopped trying to impress them. You are feeling insecure. You cant talk about anything without fighting. You cant imagine a future together. Youre obsessing over your ex. Youve been cheating.More items •Feb 14, 2017