Once youve accepted the fact that feeling shy on a date is totally normal, there are some things you can do to make yourself feel a bit less anxious. According to Relationship Coach Nina Rubin, a great way to set yourself up for a successful date is to incorporate a fun activity so you dont feel too put on the spot.

How do you not be shy on the first date?

Tips To Overcome Dating ShynessStart Small. Short, less personal interactions with little to no possibility of rejection will help you get started. Work on Eye Contact. This is a key component of body language, especially in dating. Move Out of Your Comfort Zone. Look Around. Let Go. Give Yourself A Break.30 Apr 2018

What to do on a date if youre shy?

Practice an easy manner with some sense of humor. Dating while feeling shy can feel intimidating and demanding! Try to break the tension (with yourself) by smiling, walking leisurely, sitting laidback and comfortably, and cracking a joke or two. (Just be careful not to overdo the jokes.)

Is silence okay on a first date?

Awkward silences, especially on a first date, are just inevitable. It can sometimes be a bit trying to keep a conversation going smoothly with someone youve just met. Thats normal.