Chlipala recommends waiting at least a couple months. ​It doesnt have to be exact, but I recommend dating someone for two to three months before you think about exclusivity, she says. It gives you enough time for some of the infatuation to wear off and for patterns to emerge.

How long do people wait before making a relationship official?

The two month rule. While of course its different for everyone, according to relationship psychologist and data analyst Claire Stott, 2 months is an optimum amount of time for the average couple to date before they start a relationship.

Is three dates too soon to be exclusive?

You might want to be exclusive after four dates, or you might feel comfortable waiting until date ten before making that switch. If, after four or five dates, you would feel upset or hurt by them going on a date with someone else, its time to have the talk.

How do you ask a guy to be exclusive?

How to have the exclusive relationship talk (even when its really, really scary)Go in having a general idea of what youre hoping to get out of it. Set your own time frame. Do it in person. Frame the conversation in a way that makes you feel comfortable. Be prepared for the ghost.More items •22 Jan 2018