Why is it so hard to find someone after 40?

Dating is more difficult in your 40s because your life is usually more settled, and doing new things doesnt come as easily as it did in your earlier years, says psychotherapist Tina B. Tessina, LMFT, author of The Ten Smartest Decisions a Woman Can Make After Forty.

Do relationships that start fast end fast?

While theres no guarantee that a relationship that moves too quickly will absolutely, positively end just as quickly as it came to be, taking it slow is usually a far better option than racing through it; its not as though theres some invisible finish line you need to get to, so taking your time to really relish in