It might be possible that she is jealous of you – seeing how a great guy can treat you so well. Or she might even feel insecure about herself and therefore is projecting it onto you – perhaps she is afraid that your boyfriend might hurt you the way another guy hurt your mom.

Why do parents disapprove a relationship?

They may disapprove their partner because theyre not who they pictured their child would end up with, whether thats tied to personality, physical appearance, socioeconomic status, sexual orientation, disability, race, cultural or religious background, career or other life choices.

Why does my mom literally hate?

She may not realize how her behavior makes you feel. Keep in mind mom hate may not be from your actions, but she could be struggling with how to accept you as you are. She may have insecurities viewing you as a threat. Also, find a therapist to help work through your feelings.

Is it normal for your mom to hate?

Its completely normal, and expected really, to despise your parents when theyve abused or abandoned you. Or even if theyve never laid a hand on you but held you to unrealistic expectations or forced you to live a life you dont desire.

What do you do when your mom hates your husband?

Let your mother know that it is off-limits for her to devalue your husband and his family. Make this very clear to her. If you are on the phone with her or in person and she begins to berate your husband, end the conversation. Tell your mother that from here on in she is not to talk badly about him.