Have the conversation – you may want to start it by saying “can I tell you about an issue Ive been dealing with” or “Ive been struggling recently with incontinence”. Talk about what youve been experiencing, and dont be afraid to ask for support if you need it.

How do you describe incontinence?

Incontinence describes any accidental or involuntary loss of: urine (wee) from the bladder – known as urinary incontinence. faeces (poo) or flatus (wind) from the bowel – known as faecal incontinence.

How do you explain incontinence to the elderly?

Talk to them about their symptoms and be sympathetic. Use phrases and terminology that make your loved one feel comfortable. Overall, your goal should be to normalize incontinence. Do not make them feel ashamed or ostracized due to their issue.

How do I talk to my parents about incontinence?

Call in help. If you have tried to talk casually to make your parent comfortable on this issue, but they still seem closed off, try bringing someone else in to help. A parent with incontinence might find it difficult to discuss this issue with their children. Perhaps a trusted friend or doctor* can help.

What are the first signs of incontinence?

Common signs and symptoms of urinary incontinence include:Leaking urine when coughing, sneezing, laughing, or exercising.Feeling sudden, uncontrollable urges to urinate.Frequent urination.Waking up many times at night to urinate.Urinating during sleep.

What is it called when you lose control of your bowels?

Fecal incontinence is the inability to control bowel movements, causing stool (feces) to leak unexpectedly from the rectum. Also called bowel incontinence, fecal incontinence ranges from an occasional leakage of stool while passing gas to a complete loss of bowel control.

How do you deal with senior incontinence?

Your doctor may suggest you try the following:Pelvic muscle exercises (also known as Kegel exercises) work the muscles that you use to stop urinating. Biofeedback uses sensors to make you aware of signals from your body. Timed voiding may help you control your bladder. Lifestyle changes may help with incontinence.