I would recommend starting out with a simple greeting telling the person hello, ask them how they are, and/or tell them your name. You may also want to say something that you found interesting about their profile. For example: “Hi there, my name is Tori and I see that we have the same taste in music!”

What do you say when you message first?

3. Say Something Sweet. If youre texting someone for the first time, Smith suggests mentioning something that made you laugh or made you think of them. A genuinely sweet thought is never bad, and even if the relationship doesnt progress, your text has the potential to brighten their day.